Why You Should Never Play it Cool When You Like a Man?

You should never play it cool when you like a man because showing your feelings helps things get better, and faster!

Imagine you're in a playground, and there's this really fun slide that only one person gets to go down at a time. That person is the man you like. If you play it cool, it’s like you’re saying, “I don’t care about the slide!” But if you show your feelings, maybe by smiling more, waving, or even giving him a high-five, he might think, “Hey, she likes me! Maybe I should let her go down next!”

Why showing your feelings is like giving a gift

When you show your feelings, it’s like giving someone a present. You’re saying, “I really like you!” That makes the person feel special and happy, and maybe even a little bit excited to be with you.

If you play it cool, it's like hiding your favorite toy under your bed and not telling anyone about it. But if you show your feelings, it’s like taking that toy out and showing everyone how amazing it is!

So next time you're in the playground, or anywhere else, don’t be shy! Show your feelings, and maybe the slide will be yours soon!

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Examples

  1. A girl smiles at a guy but keeps her eyes on her phone, thinking it makes her look more confident.
  2. He asks if she wants to go for coffee, and she says, 'Sure, why not?', but only after a long pause.
  3. She laughs at his joke but doesn’t make eye contact.

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