Some people feel uncomfortable when they’re hugged because their body doesn’t like being touched in a certain way.
Why Hugs Can Feel Like Too Much
Imagine you're sitting at your favorite table, eating your favorite snack. Everything is just right. Now imagine someone suddenly jumps on the table and starts shaking it, you would probably feel surprised or even scared! That’s kind of what happens when some people get hugged: their body feels like it's being shaken up, even if the hug is gentle.
How Our Bodies React
Some people have sensitive skin or a nervous system that reacts strongly to touch. It’s like having a tiny alarm inside your body, when someone hugs you, the alarm goes off and says “Hey! I didn’t expect this!”
Just like how some kids don’t like being tickled because it feels too sudden, some people don’t like being hugged if it happens too fast or is too tight. It’s not that they hate love, it's just that their body needs a little more time to get used to it!
Examples
- A child runs away from their parent during a hug because it feels too tight and overwhelming.
- An adult flinches when someone suddenly hugs them at work, feeling caught off guard.
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