Why do we shake hands as a common greeting custom?

We shake hands as a common greeting because it shows we are friendly and ready to say hello or goodbye.

A Simple Signal

When two people meet, they might not know each other very well yet. Shaking hands is like giving a little hug with the hand, it helps them feel more comfortable. It’s a way of saying, “I am not going to hurt you,” or “I am happy to see you.”

A Sign of Trust

Imagine you are at school and a new friend wants to say hello. You might smile and wave. But if you shake hands, it feels even more special, like you’re making a promise that you will be nice to each other.

Shaking hands is also used in bigger places, like when grown-ups meet for work or in sports. It’s like giving a high-five but with more respect.

A Habit That Lasts

People have been shaking hands for a very long time, hundreds of years! It has become such a common habit that we don’t even think about it anymore. But if you try it, it might feel just as fun as hugging or saying “hello” out loud.

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Examples

  1. A child learns to shake hands with their friend before playing a game.
  2. Two people meet at the park and greet each other by shaking hands.
  3. At school, students shake hands when they become friends.

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