We love because it helps us feel connected to others, just like how playing with your best friend makes you happy.
Love is like having a special buddy who stays by your side, even when things get tough. Skye C. Cleary says that loving someone means we want them to be happy and safe, just like how you might share your favorite toy with a friend so they can enjoy it too.
What love feels like
When you love someone, you feel excited and warm inside, kind of like when you get a big hug from Mom after falling off the swing. You also want to help them when they’re sad, just like how you might cheer up your little brother if he cries.
Why we keep loving
People stay in love because it’s comforting, like having a cozy blanket on a cold day. Even when things aren’t perfect, love helps us feel safe and understood. It’s not always easy, but that’s what makes it special, just like how sometimes your favorite ice cream might have extra sprinkles, or maybe even a little bit of chocolate!
Examples
- A child loves their parent because they feel safe and happy with them.
- People fall in love when they find someone who makes them laugh a lot.
- Love is like a friendship that becomes deeper over time.
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See also
- What is Falling in love?
- How did you know it was love? (Strangers Answer)?
- 1 - What is an emotion?
- Does The Weather Actually Affect Your Mood?
- How Does Language & Meaning: Crash Course Philosophy #26 Work?