Sometimes people say ‘It’s not fair’ because they want to feel better about being upset. Imagine you and your friend both get a candy bar, but your friend got the bigger one. You might say it's not fair, even though you still got a candy bar. Fairness isn’t just about getting what you want; it’s also about how things feel.
The Magic of Feeling
When we are upset, our brains try to make us feel better by telling us something is unfair, even if it really is fair.
Examples
- You get one candy bar, your friend gets two, you say it’s unfair even though you still got a candy bar.
- Your team loses a game but says the referee was biased, even if they had no reason to be.
- You wait in line for an hour and say the system is broken when someone else just walked in.
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See also
- How Do We Know When Something Is ‘Real’?
- How Do People Decide What Is 'Fair'?
- Why Do People Like Stories with Happy Endings?
- Why Do People Say ‘It’s All in the Mind’?
- Why Do People Feel ‘Guilt’ When They Break Promises?
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