Why It Feels Good to Follow Others
When everyone around you is doing the same thing, it's easier to join in. Imagine all your friends start jumping rope, it might look fun, so you want to try too. You don't know how to jump rope yet, but if everyone else is doing it, you think, “Maybe I should try, just like them.” That’s conforming.
Why People Sometimes Feel Scared to Be Different
Sometimes people worry that if they do something different, others might laugh at them or stop playing with them. It's like when you're trying a new flavor of ice cream and your friends are all having chocolate, you might feel a little nervous, but once you take a bite, you realize it’s also really good!
So, people often follow the group to avoid feeling left out or scared, just like how you sometimes copy what your friends do when you're playing.
Examples
- A kid follows the crowd into a scary clown’s tent, even though they’re terrified.
- Someone joins a chant at a sports game just because everyone else is doing it.
- You order the same dessert as your friends, even though you hate it.
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See also
- Why Do People Have Different Political Beliefs?
- What are conformity assessments?
- How Culture affects your Personality?
- How New Ideas Spread?
- What is cult?