It’s easier to pick a candy now than wait for a bigger treat later.
Imagine you're sitting at the kitchen table with two choices: one piece of candy right now, or five pieces if you wait ten minutes. Most kids, and even some grown-ups!, choose the one piece right away, even though they’d get more candy if they waited.
Why? Because getting something immediately feels better than waiting for something bigger later. It's like choosing a small toy now instead of saving up for a big toy that costs more money.
The Big Treat Takes Time
Sometimes, the big treat, like learning to read or finishing homework, doesn’t happen right away. You have to work at it, day after day. But the small treat, like playing video games or eating ice cream, happens right now.
It’s like choosing between a lollipop today and a whole bag of gummy bears next week. The lollipop is sweet, but the bag of gummy bears might be even sweeter!
So, it's not that people don’t want big rewards, they just want them now!
Examples
- Choosing a candy bar now instead of saving up for a bigger meal later.
- Skipping exercise to watch a movie right away.
- Buying something on impulse rather than waiting for a sale.
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See also
- What are good decisions?
- What are emotional influences?
- What are gut feelings?
- What are intuitions?
- What are heuristics and biases?