Why Do People Lie to Themselves?

Imagine you really want a cookie, but your mom said no. You might tell yourself it's not that good, just to feel better. That’s self-deception! It’s like telling yourself the truth isn’t the truth anymore, and it helps you avoid feeling bad in the moment. Self-deception is when people believe things that aren’t really true, all to feel happier or less stressed.

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Examples

  1. A kid tells themselves the cookie isn’t as good because they wanted it so badly.
  2. A student says, 'This test wasn’t hard,' even though they got most of the answers wrong.
  3. An adult believes their job is fine, just to avoid confronting that they might be failing.

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