What Happens
The Fading Filter
Why It Matters
This is called rosy retrospection. Our brains are wired to keep our spirits up by forgetting the tiny hurts. If we remembered every little annoyance forever, life would feel very heavy. So, we choose to remember the love and leave behind the grumpiness.
Examples
- You hated the traffic on your way to grandma's house, but now you only remember her cookies.
- The math test felt impossible that day, but now you think it was just okay.
- Your old dog was always sick, but you mostly recall how happy he made you.
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