You're in crisis if you can't do this work because it’s like being stuck on a swing set when the wind stops blowing, you’re still moving for a little while, but soon you’ll just sit there, going nowhere.
What Does "This Work" Mean?
This work is what keeps things running smoothly. It's like your favorite toy that you know how to play with, it’s fun and familiar. If you can't do this work, it feels like someone took the battery out of your toy. You're still there, but everything stops being fun or easy.
Why Is That a Crisis?
Imagine you're playing a game where you have to catch balls that come flying at you. Every time you catch one, you get a point. This work is like catching those balls, it’s how you keep scoring and having fun. If you can’t do this work, it's like the balls stop coming, or you’re too tired to catch them anymore. Suddenly, everything feels hard, and you might even feel sad because you're not playing your best game.
That’s what a crisis feels like, everything that was easy becomes hard all at once.
Examples
- A student can't keep up with school and extracurriculars, and their grades drop.
- An office worker feels overwhelmed by endless emails and meetings.
- A parent struggles to manage work and family responsibilities.
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See also
- Why Do People Get Stressed Out by Simple Choices?
- Why Do People Get Stressed Out During Exams?
- Why Do Humans Get the 'Butt-Head' Feeling When They're Stressed?
- How Does 5 Signs of Maladaptive Daydreaming Work?
- How Does 7 Signs It's Your Trauma, NOT Intuition (Gut Instinct) Work?